[Python] Legacy dataset can't roundtrip Int64 with nulls if partitioned #31175

If there is partitioning and the column has nulls, Int64 columns may not round trip successfully using the legacy datasets implementation. 

Simple reproduction:

 ```python

import pyarrow as pa
import pyarrow.parquet as pq
import pyarrow.dataset as ds
import tempfile

table = pa.table({
'x': pa.array([None, 7753285016841556620]),
'y': pa.array(['a', 'b'])
})

ds_dir = tempfile.mkdtemp()
pq.write_to_dataset(table, ds_dir, partition_cols=['y'])

table_after = ds.dataset(ds_dir).to_table()
print(table['x'])
print(table_after['x'])
assert table['x'] == table_after['x']

```Java

[
  [
    null,
    7753285016841556620
  ]
]
[
  [
    null
  ],
  [
    7753285016841556992
  ]
]

Reporter: Will Jones / @wjones127

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_{Note: This issue was originally created as ARROW-15725. Please see the migration documentation for further details.}