fix(listctrl): delegate scroll to base; HandleOnScroll private since wx 3.3.3 - #348

…ist rows blanking on scroll/keyboard (#478) (#477)

* fix(remote-gui): stop the log view blanking on Windows by dropping Freeze/Thaw (#445)

#471 tried to fix the "log view goes blank on every new line" Windows
regression by thawing before scrolling, but it made no difference: the
AppendText still ran while the control was frozen. Appending to a frozen
wxTE_RICH2 (RichEdit) on Windows leaves its line/scroll metrics stale, so on
Thaw the view renders blank with the newest line pinned to the top until a
manual scroll forces a recompute. The Freeze()/Thaw() that #451 wrapped the
per-poll appends in is the actual culprit, not the scroll order.

Drop the Freeze()/Thaw() and append on a live control (as the pre-#451 code
did). Keep the two real wins from #451: the daemon's 5000-lines-per-poll cap
and the conditional SetDefaultStyle, plus one coalesced ShowPosition per poll
instead of per line (m_logBatching still suppresses the per-line scroll). The
per-line SetDefaultStyle was the dominant first-sync cost, so responsiveness is
retained without the frozen-append rendering corruption.

macOS/GTK recompute metrics regardless and were unaffected either way.

* fix(remote-gui): repaint list rows on scroll & keyboard nav on Windows (#478)

#348 replaced the vendored wxListMainWindow::OnScroll's synchronous
HandleOnScroll(event) with event.Skip() -- HandleOnScroll became a private
member in wx 3.3.3, so the macOS/Linux CI (on wx 3.3.x) stopped compiling. On
wxMSW the resulting deferred-scroll path (wxScrollHelperBase::HandleOnScroll ->
ScrollWindow) blits the retained rows and only invalidates the newly exposed
strip, which is then left unpainted: rows go blank on mouse-wheel, scrollbar and
pagination scrolling until a redraw is forced. Verified in the wx 3.2.10 and
3.3.x sources that the scroll+repaint mechanism is identical, so this is a wxMSW
platform behavior, not a wx-version one.

Rather than gate on platform or wx version (both fragile -- the former needs the
now-private HandleOnScroll, the latter breaks once Windows ships wx 3.3.3),
reimplement the synchronous scroll using only the public wxScrollHelper API
(GetViewStart / GetScrollLines / GetScrollPageSize / Scroll), mirroring
HandleOnScroll()/CalcScrollInc(): translate the scroll event into a target
position in scroll units and scroll to it.

Factor the "scroll + repaint" sequence into a shared ScrollListTo(x, y) helper
(Update() to flush pending paints so the blit is clean, Scroll(), then
ResetVisibleLinesRange() so the exposed rows repaint) and route both OnScroll
(scrollbar/wheel) and MoveToItem (keyboard nav) through it. This also fixes the
keyboard HOME/END/PgUp/PgDn blanking, which was the same bug from a different
path: MoveToItem only reset the visible-line range after Scroll() under
__WXMAC__, so on Windows the range stayed stale and keyboard scrolls came up
blank. The reset now runs on every platform via the shared helper, and the old
__WXMAC__-only workaround is gone.

Not skipping the event means the base scroll helper won't also scroll, so no
double-scroll. Works on every supported wx (>= 3.2.0) and every platform with no
version or platform guard; compiles against wx 3.3.3.

Refs #478