• fixes some compile errors due to header params not being of type String
• add optional extra and validateStatus parameters from dio to API calls

Contains the same changes as #6915 and fixes compile issues for dart-dio mentioned in #8179.

Regarding the concerns in #6915 about missing changes to the dart generator:

• dart generator does not expose the header map
• the http.Client only handles String headers where as dio can handle dynamic headers and does its own serialization of headers

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