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Today is the Tomorrow You Worried About Yesterday (a saying by my Nan)

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Active April: Gather, Spread
MulderScully
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I've been feeling bummed after a bunch of things that went badly last night; started this morning with seven minutes of Tai Chai to calm my mind.



I'm hoping to get my laptop sorted out ASAP today, then I have plans to lead a short walk at lunchtime, and do mini golf after work. I also have my start of year appraisal, so am hoping that goes well.

On Strava, I have walked 83.2K steps for the April Walk 100K Steps Challenge. I have climbed 857m for the April Elevation Challenge and 351 feet for the HOKA Speedgoat 7 Vert Challenge.

Mindful March: Stop Watching
Cameraman
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Here's this morning's podcast - I thought the speaker made some good points, especially the way we (certainly I) might be tempted to try and compare a friend's difficult experience with our own ("oh yes, something like that happened to me...".



There was a very useful quote from Stephen Covey:



I know this has been true of me many, many times; I listen to someone but I'm just trying to form a comment that I can make or question I can ask in my head, just for the purpose of saying something, and I'll do so in a one to one situation or a conversation between more than one person where I feel that I'm not getting enough "airtime", like "I am part of this conversation too".

I'll have to think about this advice when someone next wants to pour their heart out to me.

Anyway, on to the rest of the day; I've been trying to limit my screentime today, which is difficult when my job requires me to be in front of a screen much of the time, and because I'm working at home I have to sit in front of a screen too. I tried looking out of the window during the division meeting rather than constantly staring at the screen. I confess I skipped one meeting and got on with chores, but I had a clash anyway, as I wanted to do a call about volunteering opportunities.

I confess that at times my phone and apps have caused a small distraction, and even then I realise I've not done the Wordle yet.

I've managed to get out of the house a couple of times; one walk into town, and another short one around the common. 52 ways to walk mentions the fun of turning a walk into a bit of a dance routine (the book mentioned a Miranda Hart gallop), because of the mental health benefits of having a bit of fun. I waited until I was completely out of sight, no one to watch what I was up to, walking on a less-used path and did a few wiggles, nothing too over the top, and no galloping. I managed to find one path blocked, maybe on purpose, by what looked like a dry fence, and also one tree branch blocking the way. Turned out doing a small booty shake was more fun than I'd expected.



Now to wait in for an Amazon delivery.

Mindful March: ... and we Danced, Slow
Gerrard
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I'm at home, just trying not to rush things; I know I often want to get things done, and then sort out something else, but today I'm making a conscious effort to take my time. So, I've already had a bit of lazy morning at home, just doing stuff when I feel ready.

I've got a night out with Stag Walkers; once again we're having an Indie Rock social. Hopefully it will be as fun as it was last year.


The Friday Five: When I Grow Up
Chris
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From thefridayfive

1. What did you want to be when you were a kid?

I remember wanting to be a policeman; it sounded cool to me at the time.

2. What is your proudest accomplishment so far?

Probably graduating from University.

3. What is your dream job?

No idea - maybe a video game tester would be fun.

4. Where do you see yourself in 10 years?

I really have no idea; I expect in the same house, but hopefully in a higher up position within the same company where I work, and I hope to have passed one or two more taekwon-do gradings.

5. What does it take to make you happy?

Just to know that others care about me, and getting times to catch up, even briefly, with people.

Happier January: Let's Get Together
Seal
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Some friends of mine are organising meetups for next month already; looks like we'll have a pub trip one evening, and a pool evening the evening after. I sent a couple of texts to friends telling them of the dates this morning, but didn't hear anything back. I've been a bit more successful in organising lunch with friends at work in a few weeks' time.

I spent the morning doing some mandatory learning, all about radicalisation; it made me realise how much extremists can target young people who are a little insecure or isolated, and brainwash them with their own ideologies. I chatted to the men who are finally repairing the lift where I live (after a long time) earlier, and visited the dentist. I should have asked why some of my teeth get extra sensitive to eating food; I'll have to see if the issue persists.

I watched episode 1 of A Knight of the Seven Kingdoms last night; I wonder how much will be based on the short story The Hedge Knight that George R.R. Martin wrote back in the 90s about Dunk and Egg, and how much will be based on any other stories he wrote about them. I re-read it in Robert Silverberg's Legends compilation.

September — “Return”
Me1
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September was fun; I had stuff on most weekends: a garden party, stag do, even a weekend away with the walking group. Rather than having to "ease myself into the rhythm", it almost felt like an extension of the summer.


As for September 2026, I'd like it to be unhurried. I don't want September to go too fast, as I'd like to make the most of what remains of the light evenings, and I don't want to be rushing between appointments either.











I'll use this picture to reflect the rhythm of September; still willing to have fun, not hurried or anything, just enjoying myself.


May — “The Taste of Life”
Liverpool
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May 2025 was good; it helped that I was able to go out in the evening, have walks, and spend time with friends, mostly through trips to play pool, sing karaoke, and even visit the theatre. I wasn't just sitting in front of the TV acting like a couch potato.


I very much expect to have an adventurous May 2026, because of some plans that I have at the start of the month.











Okay, so this isn't a picture of me, but this picture feels like it represents the mood of May 2025; quite chilled out, not overly busy, just having fun. That dude Aaron, and I do follow him on Instagram.


March — “More Air”
Fireworks
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March was tough at times, disappointment when a mate said he might come along to something and never did, some shock news about the death of someone I went to school with. What gave me a sense of lightness was probably just being able to get away from my own thoughts and get out hiking with others. The Indie disco that I attended early on in the month was good for taking my mind off other things, and a brief chat with a man called Johnny who was busking in the street (love it sometimes when a stranger wants to be on first name terms right away, if I'm in the right mindset anyway).


As for how I want to feel in March 2026, how about clear? Clear-headed, and clear in what I want to do this coming Spring.











Maybe this sums up my March mood — just looking forward to what is to come.


February — “Warmth Amid the Cold”
Carol Daryl
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Turned out all right really, one social postponed by a friend, and I was forced to cancel attending another one. The fact that I made a bunch of plans with friends that I was able to stick to helped, particularly Taskmaster, and the pool session that we had at the end of the month.


There was also the surprise birthday cake at church.


As for next February, I'd definitely like it to be warmer; the warmer the better.











This looks like one I took while out hiking at the start of the month.


December Kindness: Jovial
Me2
gavinf1980
Today we have the annual work Christmas breakfast and lunch. It's an early start once again, and I just hope things go okay, and there's no getting stuck with absolute bores at the table.

I'm going to see how many people I can smile at today.