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yo.

today i'm naming my abuser. it's my cheating ex-girlfriend chelsea criner of the oldsmar, st. pete and tampa, florida area.

it's perceived as weak for a man to be a "victim" of "abuse" — but any of my friends will tell you that i'm far from a weak man. i guess one of my points is that it can happen to anyone.

between the years of 2015 to 2016 my abuser convinced me on a daily basis that i was much crazier than i am until it drove me into full blown protracted psychosis for multiple years. it's something that i still struggle with to this day, and probably will for the rest of my life.

she used to read /r/raisedbynarcissists on reddit every day because her parents are narcissist high society freemasons where image is everything. loud and proud freemasons.

it's clear now that she was leveraging techniques she learned from similar abuse victims against me. chelsea, lynn (her mother) and carlin criner (her father) have even attempted to use their connections to have me killed for what i was explained by chelsea was an inconsequential amount of money.

one of her greatest tricks was convincing me that i was the abuser. she would methodically push me to the point of losing my shit, and when i responded with angry sentiment or return-fire insults i was simply being crazy for no reason.

then came the abortions.

chelsea refused to use birth control because she was afraid it would age her. instead she insisted on repeated abortions despite my being uncomfortable with it. i had no say. she killed my unborn children. i wish i'd fought back harder. the guilt consumes me.

one of her more vile acts was creating "secret girl time" with my 10 year old daughter on her trampoline. during "secret girl time" — chelsea bragged about talking to her ex's, etc. completely humiliating me in front of my daughter — causing her to lose respect for me. she was conditioning my child to keep secrets, and she successfully brainwashed her into doing just that. my kid didn't tell me until many, many years later. she was remorseful. it makes me furious to write this.

this is someone who even weaponized the police against me after screenshotting one sided crazy responses from me. she sent the screen shots to my elderly grandparents first to embarrass me, and then to the police. she put a restraining order on me and started violating it not long thereafter. it was humiliating and completely unnecessary.

tl;dr chelsea is a narcissistic abuser who brainwashed me and my 10 year old daughter with dark psychology and gaslighting techniques between 2015 — 2016.

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