So, besides working, going to school, debating, and all that jazz, I've become a bit of an addict of the e-cruising ground, adam4adam.com. Once, while on this website, this gentleman named Wayne proceeds to send me a message--he was in his late forties, but very respectable and very handsome. I thought he was a nice guy, so we traded IM names, and began chatting. Needless to say, he started asking me what I was looking for, and when I told him it was just friends, he seemed a bit put off by it, but continued to chat with me, and would tell me about his dates. One night, I decided to ask him if he wanted to grab dinner or coffee in two days...

"Oh, no. I like to plan ahead. I'd need a week..."

OK. I took that as, "I'm not interested," and didn't really care. So we continued to talk, and eventually, I just ran out of time (as many of you know) to talk to him at all. After not talking to him for two weeks, I IM'd him just minutes ago to say hello. Of course, he doesn't remember, but that's OK. Then he goes on and on about how he only keeps the IM names of the guys who are "serious" about things...

As if friendship had an expiration date.

Needless to say, I really don't know what's come over me. Perhaps it's the fact that I've been hanging out with some members of my forensics team who aren't afraid to get in people's faces when people are being rude (normally, I just walk away)...but yesterday, when this asshole debater started acting all cocky around me, since he broke into prose finals and I didn't, I proceeded to tell him to get his dick out of my face (I was sitting down, he was standing up, and he kept moving his crotch closer and closer to my face) because I am gay and he should be worried (sarcastically)...

"Dude, you're gay?"
"Duh! Where have you been? But don't worry--I'm not at all turned on by you." Said debater walks away, like a puppy with his tail between his legs.

Anyway, back to Wayne. I just got so annoyed with this man telling me the rules of dating, so I just went off on him...



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wgrazio: I take it you are not a serious one?
i sprained my left thumb ouch: well i wanted to go out once, but i guess my planning was too soon for you (i think it was within the week)
i sprained my left thumb ouch: and i dont know what you mean by serious--im desperately trying to graduate, and you seem to need more than two hours a day
wgrazio: Funny. I've been out of several dates..but it was with guys who seemed to really want to meet.
wgrazio: two hours a day?
wgrazio: I don't get it.
wgrazio: 5 min on the phone is a good start
i sprained my left thumb ouch: well, sir, i'm not desperate. my time isn't as pressing as you, seeing as how you're pushing 50, and i just IM'd to say hello, and here you go, pontificating on dating rules and donts.
i sprained my left thumb ouch: good night--and good luck =)
i sprained my left thumb ouch: your time is almost up.
wgrazio: fuck off
wgrazio: bye bye

Of course, Wayne's reasoning for all of this is that he likes structure, because he is a former captain in the Navy. WTF?! And automatically because of his past career he gets to control everything?! He may have served this country, but that doesn't mean I am going to serve him.

Yes, I was rude--I shouldn't have made fun of his age, but c'mon now--when will it ever be enough? When will it be too much? Some guys believe that it's too much, and they want more space...while others, like Wayne, believe that the only way to go is serious...

I had just had enough, is all.