ON THIS JOURNAL:
(tl;dr does not apply, plzkthx)
if I added youYou are not required to add me back; adding you means that I value your opinions/posts/etc., and if your journal isn't Friends Only, I don't particularly mind if you friend me back (though it would be really nice!); the point is that you can read my entries if you so desire.
I realize that I post a
lot. Several times a day, if not more, provided I have net access. I likewise realize that not everyone wants to devote their f-page to all my (rather spammy...) entries. I
also realize that the detailed RL stuff in here... not everyone wants to hear that.
So, if I add you and don't ask you to add me back, and you're just checking out this journal, you don't have to friend me back unless you
want to. (Though I really would like it if you did!)
if you friended meI shall friend you back! Only, the email notifications on New Friends don't always reach me, so please please
do comment to my
Friends-Only post, and I'll be sure to add you back. (provided, of course, you fit the criterion: I know you from RL or an RPG
and we talk because of it, or if you can list three, four non-fandom things we have in common)
edit considering recent developments, I
will not friend you back, unless you do
comment to said FO post. This is nothing personal; it's just everything important.
I love friends! The only reason I'm so picky is I
do post a lot of RL stuff that I don't want just
anyone to know. But, really, some of my dearest friends (on LJ or otherwise) were originally just random people! *waves at
snarkylightning !!!*
if you want to unfriend meI won't cry
too much, I promise! Chances are I'll keep you friended, unless for some reason I don't like you anymore (unlikely!)
Just, please, comment somewhere first, let me know why! I am loathe to think that I upset you at all!
If it's my multiple posts and only that, and if your journal is FO, I
do ask that you add me to a custom group that filters me from your f-page but allows me to still read your entries (unless you don't want me to!), though... because chances are I adore you :)
if I unfriend youIt's because (a) you've offended me or (b) you friended me without getting to know me first and I feel as if it's not worth my time (i.e; you never comment or vote in polls so I don't know that you're so much as reading)
d) I read every journal entry on my f-page, and, provided I have the time, every single thing in my communities (exceptions: badfic. This I do not read.) I expect the same treatment from others. If you're not going to read, don't bother friending. :|
if you have any questions (or if I didn't cover everything)
Just post them! Comments are
screened.
♥