\nLittle grains of sand,<\/em><\/p>\n
Make the mighty ocean Little deeds of kindness, Make our earth an Eden, By: Julia Carney<\/p>\n W<\/span>hen my children were young, our days were filled with things that seemed little: learning how to put away our shoes, chew with our mouths closed, remember to say please and thank you. Everything we did and everywhere we went felt laden with lessons that needed to be taught by me. And because the lessons seemed \u201clittle,\u201d I was often tempted to feel that the work was insignificant.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n This temptation to devalue our work confronts us routinely because, by necessity, our work is mundane and repetitive.\u00a0 <\/span>When you must excuse yourself from an adult conversation to settle a dispute between toddlers, the glory of the work you are doing disappears behind shame and bitterness. When you must remind the same child to close the door behind him dozens of times each day, the glory of the work you are doing dissolves into fatigue and frustration.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n But Ms. Carney\u2019s poem reminds us that this glory exists whether or not we see it. In fact, she gives these mundane and repetitive lessons the cumulative glory of a \u201cmighty ocean.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n When we work through phonics homework and math facts memorization on a daily basis, we are tempted to see only the grains of sand and the drops of water. The glory of the ocean and the peacefulness of pleasant land is hard to imagine.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n But imagine, we must. Because in that moment, we must believe in God\u2019s promise by faith that these grains of sand and drops of water turn into something glorious by His grace. We must believe by faith that the work we do now, although small as a grain of sand, accumulates. What we see now is small and seemingly insignificant, but without it there is no potential glory. This requires great imagination and even greater faith.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n There can be no quadratic functions without math facts. There can be no senior thesis without phonics.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n These two simple stanzas from Ms. Carney are easy to memorize. The rhyme scheme and meter are perfect for tucking into young hearts. And they serve as a cheerful counterbalance to all those \u201clittle\u201d lessons that can feel so burdensome.<\/span><\/p>\n Deeds and words add up. As do all the lessons learned around the kitchen table doing homework together. Modeling diligence and perseverance, self-control and joy when school feels mundane and repetitive gives our children a real picture of what faithfulness looks like now\u2014what we mean when we pray, \u201cThy kingdom come, Thy will be done on earth as it is in Heaven.\u201d<\/p>\n Loving the Little Years<\/strong> by Rachel Jankovic<\/i><\/p>\n For the Children\u2019s Sake <\/strong>by Susan Schaeffer Macaulay\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n What is a Family?<\/strong> by Edith Schaeffer<\/i><\/p>\n Mere Motherhood<\/strong> by Cindy Rollins<\/i><\/p>\n How to Behave and Why<\/strong> by Munro Leaf<\/i><\/p>\n You Read to Me, I\u2019ll Read to You:Very Short Fables to Read Together<\/strong> by Mary Anne Hoberman<\/i><\/p>\n Manners Can Be Fun <\/strong>by Munro Leaf<\/i><\/p>\n How to Speak Politely and Why<\/strong> by Munro Leaf<\/i><\/p>\n First Things First: An Illustrated Collection<\/strong> Man<\/span>di Ger<\/span>th<\/span><\/strong>\u00a0<\/span><\/b> Little drops of water, Little grains of sand, Make the mighty ocean And the pleasant land. Little deeds of kindness, Little words of love, Make our earth an Eden, Like the heaven above. By: Julia Carney When my children were young, our days were filled with things that seemed little: learning how to put […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":25887,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[16,14,101,70,22,78],"tags":[362],"yoast_head":"\n
\nAnd the pleasant land.<\/em><\/p>\n
\nLittle words of love,<\/em><\/p>\n
\nLike the heaven above.<\/em><\/p>\nBooks to encourage parents:<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nBooks to help teach \u201clittle things\u201d:\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n
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\nof Sayings Useful and Familiar for Children<\/strong> by Betty Fraser (out of print)<\/i><\/p>\n
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teaches upper school humanities at The Oaks Tutorials in Fort Worth, TX. Her work has appeared on the CiRCE Institute and Theopolis blogs. She and her husband have labored for over twenty years to build a family culture for their five children that values books, baseball,
\nmuseums, home-cooked meals, and conversation about ideas.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"