{"@attributes":{"version":"2.0"},"channel":{"description":"Avery (MDiv, they\/them or ze\/zir pronouns). \n\ud83c\udff3\ufe0f\u200d\u26a7\ufe0f Here for the liberation of all peoples and flourishing of all Creation  \ud83c\udf31\n\nDECOLONIZE PALESTINE!!!  \ud83c\uddf5\ud83c\uddf8 LAND BACK ACROSS THE GLOBE! \ud83c\udf0e\n\nCheck out my pinned post for more.","title":"ONE SPIRIT, MANY GIFTS","generator":"Tumblr (3.0; @blessedarethebinarybreakers)","link":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/","item":[{"title":"Jesus talks in Luke 16 about a rich man who ignored a poor beggar named Lazarus who was inside his&hellip;","description":"<p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tumblr.com\/sacredheart-stigmata\/788161487485239296\/jesus-talks-in-luke-16-about-a-rich-man-who\" target=\"_blank\">sacredheart-stigmata<\/a>:<\/p><blockquote><p>Jesus talks in Luke 16 about a rich man who ignored a poor beggar named Lazarus who was inside his gate. They both die, and the rich man goes to Hades, while Lazarus is &ldquo;carried&rdquo; by angels to &ldquo;Abraham&rsquo;s side&rdquo;. [&hellip;] The rich man asks Abraham to have Lazarus go get him some water, because he is &ldquo;in agony in this fire.&rdquo;<\/p><p>[&hellip;] Note what it is this man wants in hell: he wants Lazarus to get him water. The rich man wants Lazarus to serve him. In their previous life, the rich man saw himself as better than Lazarus, and now, in hell, the rich man still sees himself as above Lazarus. It&rsquo;s no wonder Abraham says there&rsquo;s a chasm that can&rsquo;t be crossed. The chasm is the rich man&rsquo;s heart! It hasn&rsquo;t changed, even in death and torment and agony. He&rsquo;s still clinging to the old hierarchy. He still thinks he&rsquo;s <i>better<\/i>. <\/p><p>[&hellip;] To reject Lazarus was to reject God. The rich man Jesus tells us about hasn\u2019t yet figured that out. He\u2019s still clinging to his ego, his status, his pride\u2014he\u2019s unable to let go of the world he\u2019s constructed, which puts him on the top and Lazarus on the bottom, the world where Lazarus served <i>him<\/i>.<\/p><p>He&rsquo;s dead, but he hasn&rsquo;t died&ndash; he&rsquo;s in Hades, but he still hasn&rsquo;t died the death that brings Life. [The death of greed, of cruelty to one&rsquo;s neighbour. The death of his own place in the oppressor class]. He\u2019s living with the reality that comes from not dying that death that will lead a person into the only Life that will ever be worth living.<\/p><blockquote class=\"npf_indented\"><p>Lazarus and the Rich Man and what they can teach us about Christian Hell as seen in<i> Love Wins: A Book About Heaven, Hell, and the Fate of Every Person Who Has Ever Lived <\/i><\/p><\/blockquote><\/blockquote>","link":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/832851598993719296","guid":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/832851598993719296","pubDate":"Mon, 09 Nov 2026 19:06:19 -0500","category":["lazarus","lazarus and the rich man","luke 16","hell","reading and studying the bible"]},{"title":"Curling up in the arms of God like a wounded animal in its den","description":"<p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"https:\/\/laurelindorenan.tumblr.com\/post\/829853070769963008\/curling-up-in-the-arms-of-god-like-a-wounded\" target=\"_blank\">laurelindorenan<\/a>:<\/p><blockquote><p>Curling up in the arms of God like a wounded animal in its den<\/p><\/blockquote>","link":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/832851541807513600","guid":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/832851541807513600","pubDate":"Mon, 09 Nov 2026 19:05:24 -0500","category":["this was me all october","us and god","comfort"]},{"title":"In ten minutes &mdash; Monday Nov 9 at 7pm ET &mdash; come hear my friend and colleague Brooke discuss&hellip;","description":"<div class=\"npf_row\"><figure class=\"tmblr-full\" data-orig-height=\"788\" data-orig-width=\"940\"><img src=\"https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/ec3bdf0204ba1a8d3b5374d9f67bb2f6\/f47f567fd6e8febd-4d\/s640x960\/dc263c1b139df3ac6088055c7f933220b1bd9c6d.png\" data-orig-height=\"788\" data-orig-width=\"940\" alt=\"Photo of Brooke, a young Black woman smiling at the viewer, with text reading &quot;More Light Monday: Recovering from spiritual trauma&quot; and with the same info as in this post's text\" srcset=\"https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/ec3bdf0204ba1a8d3b5374d9f67bb2f6\/f47f567fd6e8febd-4d\/s75x75_c1\/84e5a0286c737d04c7cd7cc1b93e7969debe6e63.png 75w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/ec3bdf0204ba1a8d3b5374d9f67bb2f6\/f47f567fd6e8febd-4d\/s100x200\/f4389cc26dd166624e76d305fd11658d89695d28.png 100w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/ec3bdf0204ba1a8d3b5374d9f67bb2f6\/f47f567fd6e8febd-4d\/s250x400\/18dbdb3a026ed3691b65df7ac2095ce640a3d835.png 250w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/ec3bdf0204ba1a8d3b5374d9f67bb2f6\/f47f567fd6e8febd-4d\/s400x600\/af6a17b503a9fb2107f3d71c0fda49a0d2095c92.png 400w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/ec3bdf0204ba1a8d3b5374d9f67bb2f6\/f47f567fd6e8febd-4d\/s500x750\/fe5318515a0636e62f0e9817e23a9b6685e633d6.png 500w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/ec3bdf0204ba1a8d3b5374d9f67bb2f6\/f47f567fd6e8febd-4d\/s540x810\/c31c3d7d34b4b363bae04f9860ee3d51e6b27357.png 540w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/ec3bdf0204ba1a8d3b5374d9f67bb2f6\/f47f567fd6e8febd-4d\/s640x960\/dc263c1b139df3ac6088055c7f933220b1bd9c6d.png 640w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/ec3bdf0204ba1a8d3b5374d9f67bb2f6\/f47f567fd6e8febd-4d\/s1280x1920\/078bd1f077d655f875569d1e01e44c6af45be957.png 940w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 940px) 100vw, 940px\"\/><span class=\"tmblr-alt-text-helper\">ALT<\/span><\/figure><\/div><p>In ten minutes \u2014 Monday Nov 9 at 7pm ET \u2014 come hear my friend and colleague Brooke discuss recovering from spiritual trauma! <\/p><p>&ldquo;Join Rev. Brooke Scott, licensed social worker and therapist, as we discuss what spiritual trauma looks like, how it affects LGBTQIA+ people, and the ways in which we can care for ourselves and others as we seek to dismantle systems that perpetuate harm, including the church.&rdquo;<\/p><p><a href=\"https:\/\/l.facebook.com\/l.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fmlp.org%2Fevent%2Fmore-light-mondays-10%2F%3Ffbclid%3DIwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTAAcGRvZgVicmlkETFMc01jZ3hneFpIcHVSRlVDc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQQMjIyMDM5MTc4ODIwMDg5MgABH237B_vCwS03MAxzrV6MhTiZr6nVaIZ3usJhtLecgrTSihLSXjhjSFuUARHw_aem_hget1NJqS_EyB2wlDf4dhQ&amp;h=AUDcRzixVLKFUXmzNZyhapktmmwxZXY_fGteiKZXjID_RcTTE4rGDJPGQnxNvg7KOcL_b7Bshp7niXkM9f77oBBakQFiAEetKC_494PSXgCKDEKziJKyvoGQIip5EHdJQyzHgbrF41iDxdt0d9K0nA&amp;__tn__=R%5D-R&amp;c%5B0%5D=AUD3YwL1WhyzHVQL9pe4rUVhjBFD5198yRfgwwxxoccbky_xR-nry4kjFRlV98QyOYoV4NT1Bm_QcAUPmAwXkwt4b9oRxrIJKBOqy8s4NEYDAELpLlqiKI7yYaa96hsSyxZXa-1ytl-UyhIo0acP4vu-7pjg_VTNVtZhllVJZRvb62T0tVArxiVnXTQdWFDVWBFwa9GoWImfLGnq2heVbDX7Yg&amp;c%5B1%5D=AUDPWxx7mmnhczYcNVtucAIcDHqyorWzVizzpmyRTdmgUehVbVSdYmznUS5VawQKyriFjdFuGUUSMRTc3Xj_IYNTLyrMGOXJudh6XzFj_idZYcNAcbsIAcTvOjh9IwPT--n8VDQxYo1kUOqkcrIZsH4GFUrtr-V-DGpTqO9FDeOA6raTwqIWXqifSqihSho\" target=\"_blank\">Submit this to immediately receive the link<\/a>; only info you have to give is your email and it&rsquo;s not to spam you, it&rsquo;s just to ensure we don&rsquo;t get repeated jerks coming in. You can show up late, it goes till 8pm ET<\/p>","link":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/832850656756940800","guid":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/832850656756940800","pubDate":"Mon, 09 Nov 2026 18:51:20 -0500"},{"title":"&ldquo;Growing up in Poland, I remember the icon of the Black Madonna traveling from home to home. She was&hellip;","description":"<p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tumblr.com\/sacredheart-stigmata\/829042307381739520\/growing-up-in-poland-i-remember-the-icon-of-the\" target=\"_blank\">sacredheart-stigmata<\/a>:<\/p><blockquote><p>\u201cGrowing up in Poland, I remember the icon of the Black Madonna traveling from home to home. She was a mother with skin as dark as the earth and scars across her face. When we gathered with our neighbors before her, we brought our own wounds, too. We held our difficulties and heartbreaks before her and trusted that she understood. The rosary was always part of those gatherings, but it was also the prayer we turned to again and again throughout our lives. When someone died, we prayed the rosary. When someone was born, we prayed the rosary. When someone was sick or got well, we prayed the rosary. When political regimes pushed us against the wall, we prayed the rosary. It was our prayer.\u201d<\/p><blockquote class=\"npf_indented\"><p>the words of <b>Adam Bucko<\/b>, Episcopal priest and author of <a href=\"https:\/\/fatheradambucko.substack.com\/p\/before-a-mother-whose-face-bore-scars?r=3u8vp1&amp;utm_medium=ios\" target=\"_blank\">Let Your Heartbreak Be Your Guide: Lessons in Engaged Contemplation<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote><\/blockquote>","link":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/830131353092800512","guid":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/830131353092800512","pubDate":"Sat, 10 Oct 2026 19:29:10 -0400","category":["mary tag","black madonna","catholic tag","history","saints tag"]},{"title":"I\u2019ve been rereading my Bible and I\u2019m having an impossibly difficult time with the book of Joshua. God seems so impossibly cruel here, if not outright genocidal. I worry that feeling that way is falling into the old antisemitic \u201cthe old testament God is evil and violent but the new testament God is good and nice\u201d trope, but at the same time\u2026the text is just kind of embracing wholesale slaughter of innocent communities.  I\u2019d appreciate any guidance you\u2019ve got in this direction","description":"<p>In her book <i>Inspired: Slaying Giants, Walking on Water, and Loving the Bible Again<\/i>, <a href=\"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/189089531256\/my-theology-is-only-as-rich-as-the-diversity-of\">Rachel Held Evans says that growing up<\/a>, she was firmly told not to question <i>any<\/i> part of scripture, and to believe that if the Bible depicts God doing or saying a thing, that thing <i>is<\/i> just, even when it sounds unjust to us:<\/p><blockquote class=\"npf_indented\"><p>\"<b>But accepting the Bible\u2019s war stories without objection threatened to erase my humanity. <\/b>\u2018We don\u2019t become more spiritual by becoming less human,\u2019 Eugene Peterson said. How could I love God with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength while disengaging those very faculties every time I read the Bible?<br>So I brought my whole self into the wilderness with God \u2013 no faking, no halfway. And there we wrestled.\"<\/p><\/blockquote><p>Honestly, I'm concerned for anyone who reads through the Book of Joshua <i>without<\/i> being disturbed. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeisasacredtext.com\/joshua\/\">As Daniel Delgado describes i<\/a>t:<\/p><blockquote class=\"npf_indented\"><p>\"The Book of Joshua can be a tough read for many reasons. Not least of these is its very premise: G-d has commanded the Israelites (our ancestors!) to conquer the land of Canaan, exterminate the original inhabitants, and establish complete demographic and political domination. The text glorifies this sacred mission, at times seeming to revel in xenophobic brutality.\"<\/p><\/blockquote><p>This text <i>does<\/i> put genocidal commands in God's mouth, and we <i>should<\/i> be deeply troubled by this fact \u2014 especially given the ways Joshua's been weaponized to justify violence throughout the centuries.<\/p><p>If you recognize that there are many, many places in the Hebrew Bible where God is depicted as loving and a defender of the oppressed, <b>it's not antisemitic<\/b> to recognize places where God is depicted otherwise; Jewish scholars and readers also notice and wrestle with these places! <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeisasacredtext.com\/conquest\/\">As the fantastic Rabbi Danya Ruttenberg explains<\/a>, <\/p><h2>It is the responsibility of all of us who have Joshua as part of our sacred canon to wrestle with the book and its fruits.<\/h2><blockquote class=\"npf_indented\"><p>\"We cannot pretend that this massive narrative arc is not here. We cannot pretend that it has not done innumerable damage to many peoples and places over the course of history.\"<\/p><\/blockquote><p>This isn't to say that everyone has to do that Right Now As Fast As We Can. The best way to unpack heavy parts of Bible and faith is in community, and\/or working slowly with lots of space for rest and reflection, interspersed with reminders of the good news of God in scripture, Creation, and in human relationship.<\/p><p>That being said, what follows are places to begin, looking at: <\/p><h2>Joshua's <b>history<\/b> of harm; <br>the <b>sociohistorical<\/b> <b>context<\/b> of Joshua; <br>and finally considering what <b>good news <\/b><i>can<\/i> be wrestled out of the text.<\/h2><p>Key examples of Joshua's harmful recent history:<\/p><ul><li>1200s: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.scribd.com\/document\/943027438\/Louis-IX-Crusade-and-the-Promise-of-Josh\">Louis IX constructed himself<\/a> as a new Joshua, depicting Joshua as a fellow crusader ordained by God to \"tame\" the Holy Land, and Louis IX as part of that same Salvation history ordained to do likewise.<br>.<\/li><li>1800s and <b><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Manifest_destiny\">Manifest Destiny<\/a><\/b>: In <a href=\"https:\/\/www.christiancentury.org\/books\/american-canaan\"><i>Undoing Manifest Destiny<\/i><\/a>, Daniel Hawk devotes a chapter to Joshua, explaining that \"...the scripts of the Canaanite conquest and those against the Indigenous people of North America are nearly identical. For example, both narratives outline an <b>invasion under a divine mandate,<\/b> the use of mass violence against Indigenous peoples, and the reshaping of the land with new boundaries and memorials after it is emptied. Both narratives feature outsiders who play the role of Indigenous helpers. (In the American story, we have Pocahontas and Sacagawea; in Joshua, there is Rahab.) In both accounts, any remaining Indigenous populations that do not assimilate ought to be removed or relocated in order to safeguard settler populations.\"<br>.<\/li><li>1900s-today: \"<a href=\"https:\/\/press.princeton.edu\/books\/hardcover\/9780691198934\/the-joshua-generation?ref=lifeisasacredtext.com\">No biblical text has been more central to the politics of <b>modern<\/b> <b>Israel<\/b> than the book of Joshua<\/a>.\" Like settlers in the US, and drawing from the Zionist ideology first developed by imperial Britain in the 1800s (<a href=\"https:\/\/medium.com\/@blessedarethebinarybreakers\/decolonizing-palestine-2023-by-mitri-raheb-a-palestinian-christians-call-for-a-theological-d37853ea6d2f\">see chapter 1 of <i>Decolonizing Palestine<\/i><\/a>), Israeli settlers construct(ed) themselves as God's chosen people and the people of the land they claim(ed) as \"Canaanites,\" in order to describe their settlements not only as acceptable but <i>God-ordained<\/i>.<br>.<\/li><li>Since October 2023: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.middleeastmonitor.com\/20240202-israeli-minister-says-god-promised-them-the-land\/?ref=lifeisasacredtext.com\">This ideology has been repeated<\/a> over and over to justify the escalated violence and genocide of the Palestinian people.<\/li><\/ul><h2>So yes, we <i>should<\/i> be disturbed by this \"<a href=\"https:\/\/dn760002.eu.archive.org\/0\/items\/phyllis-trible-texts-of-terror\/Phyllis%20Trible%20-%20Texts%20of%20Terror.pdf\">text of terror<\/a>\" and its fruits. ...<i>And <\/i>we can simultaneously put it in its sociohistorical context.<\/h2><p>Two great accessible resources sharing this history are:<\/p><ul><li>Rachel Held Evans' <i>Inspired<\/i>; <a href=\"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/743809663135547392\/wrestling-with-the-bibles-war-stories\">you can read the Joshua excerpt here<\/a>, though I highly recommend the whole book to help deconstruct and reconstruct a faithful framework for reading scripture<br>.<\/li><li><b>Rabbi Danya Ruttenberg's <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeisasacredtext.com\/conquest\/\">article \"debunking the conquest narrative<\/a>:<\/b> facing one of the hardest narrative arcs in the Bible armed with the truth of what really happened\"<\/li><\/ul><p><b>Summing up their main points:<\/b><\/p><ul><li>The genocide described in Joshua <b>did not happen.<\/b> There is no archeological evidence of such a mass murder; in fact, evidence points to Israelites settling in places with no ruins underneath them \u2014 i.e. they didn't take over villages, they built fresh ones. <br><br>What is more, other books in the Bible and extra-biblical ancient texts talk of the Canaanites long after the supposed genocide Joshua describes! <br>.<\/li><li>We just don't have the textual and archeological evidence to make conclusive theories, but Ruttenberg offers a couple that have nothing to do with invasion and mass murder: One is that the Israelites and Canaanites were once one ethinic group, with Israelites eventually settling outside original settlements. Or, similarly, Ruttenberg quotes Dr. Tzemah Yoreh with another option being \"that they came from somewhere very early on, and settled [in these villages], and that there were wars, but not the genocidal ones posited by the biblical story, and that they were not conclusive ones. [The process was one of a <b>g]radual settling<\/b> over many generations, so [in many or most senses they were] <b>virtually indistinguishable from the Canaanites.<\/b>\"<br>.<\/li><li>So...<i><b>why<\/b><\/i> did the authors of Joshua write this story of divinely-mandated invasion and slaughter? <br><br><a href=\"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/743809663135547392\/wrestling-with-the-bibles-war-stories\">One theory is that<\/a> Joshua was written after Assyria had wiped the Northern Kingdom of Israel out completely, and after Babylon then swooped in, which would soon lead to the devastation of the Southern Kingdom of Judah and exile of royal and scholarly Judaeans to Babylon.. <br><br>So Joshua's authors living many centuries after the Joshua conquest narrative purportedly takes place, by an extremely traumatized people trying to make sense of empires' conquest of <i>them. <\/i>Looking back on the \"glorious\" days when God let <i>them<\/i> be the conquerors is a trauma fantasy that offers a sense of identity and control where they had lost both those things. It by no means justifies it, but helps explain it. <br><br>In this case, Joshua also serves as \"evidence\" that the land truly does belong to the Judaeans by divine right \u2014 Assyrian and Babylonian conquerers, get the heck out! As Ruttenberg puts it: \"in the face of threats from the mighty Assyrian Empire...the folks at Monarchy Central sought to [...create]<b> a militaristic narrative that could bring about a unified, nationalistic reality<\/b>.\"<\/li><\/ul><p>So there's some context that explains \u2014 though not justifies \u2014 this hyperbolically violent, militaristic nationalistic narrative.<\/p><p>____<br>So...what blessings might we wrestle out of Joshua?<\/p><p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeisasacredtext.com\/joshua\/\">Daniel Delgado offers a relational lens for wrestling with Joshua<\/a>, first explaining that:<\/p><blockquote class=\"npf_indented\"><p>How do we make sense of this [conquest narrative]? For myself, I find satisfaction neither in <b>ignoring<\/b> it, nor in <b>dismissing<\/b> it as ahistorical (and then ignoring it), nor in simply <b>rejecting<\/b> it as abhorrent (and then ignoring it).<br><br><b>Sacred words demand attention. <\/b>They are given to us\u2014whether by the mouth of Divinity or the hands and voices of our ancestors\u2014<b>with something to teach.<\/b><\/p><\/blockquote><p>He goes on to consider the conquest story as <b>Warning<\/b>: \"If the Conquest Narrative is part of our Origin Myth, what does it tell us about who we are, where we came from, and where we are going?\" ... \"\u00a0If we recognize the holiness of our \u201cdisgust and horror\u201d at the Conquest Narrative, what can it teach us?\"<\/p><p><a href=\"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/743809663135547392\/wrestling-with-the-bibles-war-stories\">Rachel Held Evans considers<\/a> the Conquest narrative (and other biblical \"war stories\" from a similar angle:<\/p><blockquote class=\"npf_indented\"><p><b>It\u2019s not always clear what we are meant to learn from the Bible\u2019s most troubling stories, but if we simply look away, we learn nothing.<\/b> ...<\/p><\/blockquote><blockquote class=\"npf_indented\"><p>If the Bible\u2019s texts of terror <b>compel us to face with fresh horror and resolve the ongoing oppression and exploitation<\/b> of women, <b>then perhaps these stories do not trouble us in vain.<\/b> Perhaps we can use them for some good.<br><br>[...Second,] <b>we are not as different from the ancient Israelites<\/b> as we would like to believe.<br><br>'It was a violent and tribal culture,' people like to say of ancient Israel to explain away its actions in Canaan. But, as Joshua Ryan Butler astutely observed, when it comes to civilian casualties, 'we tend to hold the ancients to a much higher standard than we hold ourselves.' In the time it took me to write this chapter, nearly one thousand civilians were killed in airstrikes in Iraq and Syria, many of them women and children. The atomic bombs dropped on Hiroshima and Nagasaki took hundreds of thousands of lives in World War II, and far more civilians died in the Korean War and Vietnam War than American soldiers. Even though America is one of the wealthiest countries in the world, it takes in less than half of 1 percent of the world\u2019s refugees, and drone warfare has left many thousands of families across the Middle East terrorized.<br><br>This is not to excuse Israel\u2019s violence, because modern-day violence is also bad, nor is it to trivialize debates over just war theory and US involvement in various historical conflicts, which are complex issues far beyond the scope of this book. Rather, it ought to <b>challenge<\/b> <b>us<\/b> to engage the Bible\u2019s war stories with a bit more <b>humility and introspection,<\/b> willing to channel some of our horror over atrocities past into questioning elements of the war machines that still roll on today.\"<\/p><\/blockquote><p>Held Evans ends with a message on wrestling scripture that closes this too-long answer fittingly:<\/p><blockquote class=\"npf_indented\"><p><b>The truth is, I\u2019ve yet to find an explanation for the Bible\u2019s war stories that I find completely satisfying. <\/b>If we view this through Occam\u2019s razor and choose the simplest solution to the problem, we might conclude that the ancient Israelites invented a deity to justify their conquests and keep their people in line. As such, then, the Bible isn\u2019t a holy book with human fingerprints; it\u2019s an entirely human construction, responsible for more vice than virtue.<br><br>There are days when that\u2019s what I believe, days when I mumble through the hymns and creeds at church because I\u2019m not convinced they say anything true. <br><br><b>And then there are days when the Bible pulls me back with a numinous force I can only regard as divine, days when Hagar and Deborah and Rahab reach out from the page, grab me by the face, and say, \u201cPay attention. This is for you.\u201d<\/b><br><br>I\u2019m in no rush to patch up these questions. God save me from the day when stories of violence, rape, and ethnic cleansing inspire within me anything other than revulsion.<b> I don\u2019t want to become a person who is unbothered by these texts<\/b>, and if Jesus is who he says he is, then I don\u2019t think he wants me to be either.<br><br><b>There are parts of the Bible that inspire, parts that perplex, and parts that leave you with an open wound. I\u2019m still wrestling, and like Jacob, I will wrestle until I am blessed. God hasn\u2019t let go of me yet.<\/b><br><br>War is a dreadful and storied part of the human experience, and Scripture captures many shades of it\u2014from the chest-thumping of the victors to the anguished cries of victims. There is ammunition there for those seeking religious justification for violence, and solidarity for all the mothers like Rizpah who just want an end to it.<br>For those of us who prefer to keep the realities of war at a safe, sanitized distance, and who enjoy the luxury of that choice, <b>the Bible\u2019s war stories force a confrontation<\/b> <b>with the darkness.<\/b><br><br><b>Maybe that\u2019s not such a bad thing.<\/b>\"<\/p><\/blockquote>","link":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/828210839815356416","guid":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/828210839815356416","pubDate":"Sat, 19 Sep 2026 14:43:26 -0400","category":["joshua","book of joshua","rachel held evans","rabbi danya ruttenberg","texts of terror","conquest narrative","reading and studying the bible"]},{"title":"Tonight, Monday Sept 14 at 7pm Eastern time, come learn about the intersections between Palestinian&hellip;","description":"<p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"https:\/\/a-queer-seminarian.tumblr.com\/post\/827761374179606528\/tonight-monday-sept-14-at-7pm-eastern-time-come\" target=\"_blank\">a-queer-seminarian<\/a>:<\/p><blockquote><h2>Tonight, Monday Sept 14 at 7pm Eastern time, come learn about the intersections between Palestinian and queer liberation!!<\/h2><p>The genocide against Palestinians is not over, and there are things we can all be doing about it. Come learn on Zoom with me and Palestinian Justice Network member Addie Domske!<\/p><p><a href=\"https:\/\/mlp.org\/event\/more-light-mondays-5\/\" target=\"_blank\">Register here<\/a> (automated, so you can register at the last second and still get in!)<\/p><\/blockquote>","link":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/827764278265266176","guid":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/827764278265266176","pubDate":"Mon, 14 Sep 2026 16:25:32 -0400"},{"title":"Hi! I\u2019m kinda struggling a lot rn with my faith after finding out how differently the Jewish people interpret the tanakh, and that they don\u2019t see it as leading to jesus at all. It\u2019s really confused me a lot, so do you have any  other ways to read the old testament without being antisemitic or Christian supercessionism?","description":"<p>Hey there. It's great that you're exploring this topic and are interested in learning new ways to understand scripture! <\/p><p>I'll start by saying it's very common to have these sort of moments in faith \u2014 where you realize some foundational elements of what you believe are wrong, and struggle to restructure around that fact. It can be scary, and messy, and take a long time to fully unwind \u2014 but your desire to figure things out is a great act of faith!<\/p><p>I have a lot of posts on unpacking supersessionism; you can find many in <b>my #<a href=\"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/tagged\/antisemitism\">antisemitism<\/a> tag, and <a href=\"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/654986052428333056\/my-faith-is-really-important-to-me-but-based-off\">I recommend this post in particular<\/a> as a starting point.<\/b><\/p><p>When it comes to new ways of reading the Old Testament \u2014 also called the First Testament or Hebrew Bible to remove the implication that God's covenant (i.e. testament) with the Jewish people is \"old\" (i.e. outdated, replaced) \u2014 you will likely find that your understanding of scripture as a whole will need re-exploring.  <\/p><p>You may find my <a href=\"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.com\/framework-for-scripture\/\">framework for interpreting scripture<\/a> and\/or Rachel <a href=\"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/tagged\/inspired\">Held Evans' book <\/a><i><a href=\"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/tagged\/inspired\">Inspired<\/a><\/i> useful in that journey. <\/p><p>Also, <a href=\"https:\/\/medium.com\/@blessedarethebinarybreakers\/adressing-advent-anti-judaism-e6d9a6243d2a\">here's an article<\/a> where I discuss how the biblical prophets were not future-tellers but truth-tellers, speaking directly to their own present day \u2014 even while God still speaks through them to us today.<\/p><p>Wishing you wisdom, courage, and patience with yourself as you journey!<\/p>","link":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/827491167320031232","guid":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/827491167320031232","pubDate":"Fri, 11 Sep 2026 16:04:33 -0400","category":["supersessionism","reading and studying the bible","hebrew bible","old testament"]},{"title":"La Mano Poderosa (The All-Powerful Hand of God), Filipino art","description":"<p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"https:\/\/globalworship.tumblr.com\/post\/825477534967824384\/la-mano-poderosa-the-all-powerful-hand-of-god\" target=\"_blank\">globalworship<\/a>:<\/p><blockquote><p><b>Ryan Carre\u00f3n Arag\u00f3n<\/b>\u00a0is an acclaimed Filipino artist whol lives in \u00a0Cagayan de Oro, Philippines.<\/p><p>Here is his artworktitleds <i>La Mano Poderosa<\/i> (The All-Powerful Hand of God), an acrylic on canvas painting created in 2014.<\/p><div class=\"npf_row\"><figure class=\"tmblr-full\" data-orig-height=\"1536\" data-orig-width=\"1224\"><img src=\"https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/a4b2da22c6050b840726950561f66103\/a097a29210b72f71-94\/s640x960\/ba564ee3925bc09c3b0a29bb42a94ea1b4e09164.png\" data-orig-height=\"1536\" data-orig-width=\"1224\" srcset=\"https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/a4b2da22c6050b840726950561f66103\/a097a29210b72f71-94\/s75x75_c1\/9f7e653a0193f6c166ec261d61ee7dab69f5d1fd.png 75w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/a4b2da22c6050b840726950561f66103\/a097a29210b72f71-94\/s100x200\/086769d5f54e9036e1194fdde844cad20b9f11f1.png 100w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/a4b2da22c6050b840726950561f66103\/a097a29210b72f71-94\/s250x400\/55706aa91092e09a1c2129705156971a5eaf20e3.png 250w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/a4b2da22c6050b840726950561f66103\/a097a29210b72f71-94\/s400x600\/cf38df5f186ef097e4c7db5dfb229f9f45eb5815.png 400w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/a4b2da22c6050b840726950561f66103\/a097a29210b72f71-94\/s500x750\/e3a85a0d52149011e59c28b3ad05d10fa782bfb7.png 500w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/a4b2da22c6050b840726950561f66103\/a097a29210b72f71-94\/s540x810\/b250b56f0a431b7196eb3b58d86fc86782ae5300.png 540w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/a4b2da22c6050b840726950561f66103\/a097a29210b72f71-94\/s640x960\/ba564ee3925bc09c3b0a29bb42a94ea1b4e09164.png 640w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/a4b2da22c6050b840726950561f66103\/a097a29210b72f71-94\/s1280x1920\/458ba5fc8f97ae5f8f434d29bcf9848a4269baa6.png 1224w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1224px) 100vw, 1224px\"\/><\/figure><\/div><p>+++<\/p><p>The painting was featured in the &ldquo;Kristo Manila&rdquo; exhibition at SM Megamall and the NCCA Gallery, which focused on contemporary interpretations of Christian iconography and cultural heritage in the Philippines.<br\/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.metrocagayandemisamis.com\/2021\/03\/16\/in-celebration-of-500-years-of-christianity-in-the-philippines-filipino-community-in-rome-gifts-pope-francis-with-oro-artists-painting\/\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/www.metrocagayandemisamis.com\/2021\/03\/16\/in-celebration-of-500-years-of-christianity-in-the-philippines-filipino-community-in-rome-gifts-pope-francis-with-oro-artists-painting\/<\/a><\/p><p>+++<\/p><p>On the left we see St. John and the Virgin Mary. On the right we see St. Peter and Mary Magdalene. The skulls at the bottom represent death and the grave, and the large hand of Christ Crucified emerges from that bottom and brings resurrection life to the world.<\/p><p>+++<\/p><p>Follow Ryan&rsquo;s art at<br\/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/p\/The-Art-of-Ryan-Carreon-Aragon-100024792446163\/\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/p\/The-Art-of-Ryan-Carreon-Aragon-100024792446163\/<\/a><br\/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/iyancarreon\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/iyancarreon<\/a><br\/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/iyancarreon\/\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/iyancarreon\/<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>","link":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/825584738711535616","guid":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/825584738711535616","pubDate":"Fri, 21 Aug 2026 15:02:41 -0400","category":["art","jesus art","stigmata","filipino","hand","undescribed"]},{"title":"iztac-coatl:\nTonantzin Guadalupe by Estrella Apolonia\n\n\n","description":"<img src=\"https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/0596fcf6c0b7ba5598b73aafb252e695\/tumblr_nxs9a8rRKn1s4qgcno1_500.jpg\"\/><br\/><br\/><p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"http:\/\/iztac-coatl.tumblr.com\/post\/133168910141\" target=\"_blank\">iztac-coatl<\/a>:<\/p><blockquote>\n<p>Tonantzin Guadalupe by Estrella Apolonia\n\n<br\/><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>","link":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/825499031622041600","guid":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/825499031622041600","pubDate":"Thu, 20 Aug 2026 16:20:24 -0400","category":["ooooooh!!!!!","nuestra se\u00f1ora de guadalupe","our lady of guadalupe","mary art","mary","undescribed"]},{"title":"scroll to the bottom of this page for another illustration of Jesus, one of Mary and infant Jesus,&hellip;","description":"<p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"https:\/\/globalworship.tumblr.com\/post\/825497749121302528\/second-coming-black-jesus-painting\" target=\"_blank\">globalworship<\/a>:<\/p><blockquote><h1>Second Coming [Black Jesus] painting<\/h1><p>Artist <b>Melissa Tshikamba<\/b> has heritage from central Kasai, DRC (Congo), and the USA. She works primarily with oil paints and 22 karat gold leaf.  Read more about her artistic vision at<br\/><a href=\"https:\/\/tshikamba.com\/pages\/about\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/tshikamba.com\/pages\/about<\/a><\/p><p>Here is her striking painting titled &ldquo;Second Coming&rdquo; from 2023:<\/p><div class=\"npf_row\"><figure class=\"tmblr-full\" data-orig-height=\"1008\" data-orig-width=\"800\"><img src=\"https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/989df2be539f164314c5a93f16502eb6\/dcca1ae81cd54add-24\/s640x960\/c1cb1caee6484570ae4811179dea8c00cb6ffeeb.png\" data-orig-height=\"1008\" data-orig-width=\"800\" srcset=\"https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/989df2be539f164314c5a93f16502eb6\/dcca1ae81cd54add-24\/s75x75_c1\/514a96c199f1f7480eab0f92600f04990e9033ce.png 75w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/989df2be539f164314c5a93f16502eb6\/dcca1ae81cd54add-24\/s100x200\/cb7cf83fb1cf00e218bff1dff1b71185efc0109f.png 100w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/989df2be539f164314c5a93f16502eb6\/dcca1ae81cd54add-24\/s250x400\/79151606b2853f6fc204c3f836f6016d24b7f261.png 250w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/989df2be539f164314c5a93f16502eb6\/dcca1ae81cd54add-24\/s400x600\/c0a6f0daa09635b97701b79bd4ddaa94e71840bb.png 400w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/989df2be539f164314c5a93f16502eb6\/dcca1ae81cd54add-24\/s500x750\/b22db477b297c48af5212892b2d0f9ca7fad88f4.png 500w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/989df2be539f164314c5a93f16502eb6\/dcca1ae81cd54add-24\/s540x810\/9c48a43fe3603f293c8f614b5c26dd835b94a439.png 540w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/989df2be539f164314c5a93f16502eb6\/dcca1ae81cd54add-24\/s640x960\/c1cb1caee6484570ae4811179dea8c00cb6ffeeb.png 640w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/989df2be539f164314c5a93f16502eb6\/dcca1ae81cd54add-24\/s1280x1920\/3558585aa90ec885acca69a5c909387f8649cbca.png 800w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\"\/><\/figure><\/div><p><br\/><\/p><p>+++<\/p><p>You can buy prints of this piece for as little at $20 at<br\/><a href=\"https:\/\/tshikamba.com\/collections\/giclee-prints-1\/products\/second-coming\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/tshikamba.com\/collections\/giclee-prints-1\/products\/second-coming<\/a><\/p><p>See more of her spectacular art at<br\/><a href=\"https:\/\/tshikamba.com\/pages\/portfolio\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/tshikamba.com\/pages\/portfolio<\/a><br\/>and <br\/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/tshikamba\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/tshikamba<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/tshikamba.com\/pages\/portfolio\" target=\"_blank\">scroll to the bottom of this page for<\/a> another illustration of Jesus, one of Mary and infant Jesus, and one of Eve<\/p>","link":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/825498957927120896","guid":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/825498957927120896","pubDate":"Thu, 20 Aug 2026 16:19:14 -0400","category":["jesus","the black christ","art","jesus art","second coming","undescribed"]},{"title":"Some see embracing the polyamorous persons already in our midst as a &ldquo;slippery slope,&rdquo; but God&rsquo;s&hellip;","description":"<p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"https:\/\/a-queer-seminarian.tumblr.com\/post\/824204929908473856\/register-here-to-learn-about-non-monogamy-across\" target=\"_blank\">a-queer-seminarian<\/a>:<\/p><blockquote><div class=\"npf_row\"><figure class=\"tmblr-full\" data-orig-height=\"788\" data-orig-width=\"940\"><img src=\"https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/1e26153f7806d5cadff83ad066f1b1bc\/4a0968f61b8c36be-02\/s640x960\/295a9bda787e687e4ec4aeba032f5fe7e82a9ccd.png\" data-orig-height=\"788\" data-orig-width=\"940\" alt='a graphic of text with photos of two people, Claudia Aguilar Rubalcava (she\/her) and Avery Arden (they\/them). Text reads \"More Light Mondays - Join us for our next More Light Monday Conversation - Faithful Polyamory 102: Belonging from the Beginning. August 10, 7:00 PM ET. More information: email ail-hello@mlp.org - Website: www.mlp.org\" ' srcset=\"https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/1e26153f7806d5cadff83ad066f1b1bc\/4a0968f61b8c36be-02\/s75x75_c1\/085c2cca813775593cd764356f3addb9473964b9.png 75w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/1e26153f7806d5cadff83ad066f1b1bc\/4a0968f61b8c36be-02\/s100x200\/e626c88022d2f5936413aad10a37a492907dcfae.png 100w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/1e26153f7806d5cadff83ad066f1b1bc\/4a0968f61b8c36be-02\/s250x400\/dd0c03743457a311efdb3226fb5bf0102952323b.png 250w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/1e26153f7806d5cadff83ad066f1b1bc\/4a0968f61b8c36be-02\/s400x600\/9d75c1c15cab2f13663bdacecbb105f2c1ac128a.png 400w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/1e26153f7806d5cadff83ad066f1b1bc\/4a0968f61b8c36be-02\/s500x750\/eb5338f0b066f728917429a46701d9dcc5d6a9c7.png 500w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/1e26153f7806d5cadff83ad066f1b1bc\/4a0968f61b8c36be-02\/s540x810\/62d714f8db58ee79ae0b51819dfb3736eee254ef.png 540w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/1e26153f7806d5cadff83ad066f1b1bc\/4a0968f61b8c36be-02\/s640x960\/295a9bda787e687e4ec4aeba032f5fe7e82a9ccd.png 640w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/1e26153f7806d5cadff83ad066f1b1bc\/4a0968f61b8c36be-02\/s1280x1920\/c6b34e460426d5252e03c755a9d98a229dc1fa78.png 940w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 940px) 100vw, 940px\"\/><span class=\"tmblr-alt-text-helper\">ALT<\/span><\/figure><\/div><blockquote class=\"npf_indented\"><p>Some see embracing the polyamorous persons already in our midst as a &ldquo;slippery slope,&rdquo; but God&rsquo;s holy mountain is home to all kinds of people (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Isaiah%2056&amp;version=CEB\" target=\"_blank\">Isaiah 56:7-8<\/a>). Let&rsquo;s explore scripture and church history \u2014 from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=genesis%202&amp;version=CEB\" target=\"_blank\">Genesis 2<\/a>:24 to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=ephesians%205&amp;version=CEB\" target=\"_blank\">Ephesians 5<\/a>, and from Augustine to modern theologians \u2014 to discover how affirming ethically non-monogamous structures fits into God&rsquo;s call to draw our circles ever wider.<\/p><\/blockquote><p>I&rsquo;m really excited for this upcoming More Light Monday, August 10 at 7pm ET!! I&rsquo;ve been digging into church history &amp; theologies around non-monogamy (and sex &amp; marriage in general cuz it&rsquo;s all tangled together) and it&rsquo;s been fascinating. Let me share it with you!!<\/p><h1><a href=\"https:\/\/mlp.org\/event\/more-light-mondays-4\/?blm_aid=59360\" target=\"_blank\"><b>Register here<\/b> to learn about non-monogamy across Christian history &amp; theology!<\/a><\/h1><\/blockquote>","link":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/824602437239308288","guid":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/824602437239308288","pubDate":"Mon, 10 Aug 2026 18:49:25 -0400"},{"title":"Some see embracing the polyamorous persons already in our midst as a &ldquo;slippery slope,&rdquo; but God&rsquo;s&hellip;","description":"<p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"https:\/\/a-queer-seminarian.tumblr.com\/post\/824204929908473856\/register-here-to-learn-about-non-monogamy-across\" target=\"_blank\">a-queer-seminarian<\/a>:<\/p><blockquote><div class=\"npf_row\"><figure class=\"tmblr-full\" data-orig-height=\"788\" data-orig-width=\"940\"><img src=\"https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/1e26153f7806d5cadff83ad066f1b1bc\/4a0968f61b8c36be-02\/s640x960\/295a9bda787e687e4ec4aeba032f5fe7e82a9ccd.png\" data-orig-height=\"788\" data-orig-width=\"940\" alt='a graphic of text with photos of two people, Claudia Aguilar Rubalcava (she\/her) and Avery Arden (they\/them). Text reads \"More Light Mondays - Join us for our next More Light Monday Conversation - Faithful Polyamory 102: Belonging from the Beginning. August 10, 7:00 PM ET. More information: email ail-hello@mlp.org - Website: www.mlp.org\" ' srcset=\"https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/1e26153f7806d5cadff83ad066f1b1bc\/4a0968f61b8c36be-02\/s75x75_c1\/085c2cca813775593cd764356f3addb9473964b9.png 75w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/1e26153f7806d5cadff83ad066f1b1bc\/4a0968f61b8c36be-02\/s100x200\/e626c88022d2f5936413aad10a37a492907dcfae.png 100w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/1e26153f7806d5cadff83ad066f1b1bc\/4a0968f61b8c36be-02\/s250x400\/dd0c03743457a311efdb3226fb5bf0102952323b.png 250w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/1e26153f7806d5cadff83ad066f1b1bc\/4a0968f61b8c36be-02\/s400x600\/9d75c1c15cab2f13663bdacecbb105f2c1ac128a.png 400w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/1e26153f7806d5cadff83ad066f1b1bc\/4a0968f61b8c36be-02\/s500x750\/eb5338f0b066f728917429a46701d9dcc5d6a9c7.png 500w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/1e26153f7806d5cadff83ad066f1b1bc\/4a0968f61b8c36be-02\/s540x810\/62d714f8db58ee79ae0b51819dfb3736eee254ef.png 540w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/1e26153f7806d5cadff83ad066f1b1bc\/4a0968f61b8c36be-02\/s640x960\/295a9bda787e687e4ec4aeba032f5fe7e82a9ccd.png 640w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/1e26153f7806d5cadff83ad066f1b1bc\/4a0968f61b8c36be-02\/s1280x1920\/c6b34e460426d5252e03c755a9d98a229dc1fa78.png 940w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 940px) 100vw, 940px\"\/><span class=\"tmblr-alt-text-helper\">ALT<\/span><\/figure><\/div><blockquote class=\"npf_indented\"><p>Some see embracing the polyamorous persons already in our midst as a &ldquo;slippery slope,&rdquo; but God&rsquo;s holy mountain is home to all kinds of people (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Isaiah%2056&amp;version=CEB\" target=\"_blank\">Isaiah 56:7-8<\/a>). Let&rsquo;s explore scripture and church history \u2014 from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=genesis%202&amp;version=CEB\" target=\"_blank\">Genesis 2<\/a>:24 to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=ephesians%205&amp;version=CEB\" target=\"_blank\">Ephesians 5<\/a>, and from Augustine to modern theologians \u2014 to discover how affirming ethically non-monogamous structures fits into God&rsquo;s call to draw our circles ever wider.<\/p><\/blockquote><p>I&rsquo;m really excited for this upcoming More Light Monday, August 10 at 7pm ET!! I&rsquo;ve been digging into church history &amp; theologies around non-monogamy (and sex &amp; marriage in general cuz it&rsquo;s all tangled together) and it&rsquo;s been fascinating. Let me share it with you!!<\/p><h1><a href=\"https:\/\/mlp.org\/event\/more-light-mondays-4\/?blm_aid=59360\" target=\"_blank\"><b>Register here<\/b> to learn about non-monogamy across Christian history &amp; theology!<\/a><\/h1><\/blockquote>","link":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/824568349078994944","guid":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/824568349078994944","pubDate":"Mon, 10 Aug 2026 09:47:36 -0400"},{"title":"god crosses before you. you feel this lofty, lofty, tearing-open on this mountain, breaking the&hellip;","description":"<p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"https:\/\/eesirachs.tumblr.com\/post\/824566432246480896\/god-crosses-before-you-you-feel-this-lofty\" target=\"_blank\">eesirachs<\/a>:<\/p><blockquote><p>god crosses before you. you feel this lofty, lofty, tearing-open on this mountain, breaking the cliffs or crags. but god was not in the tearing-open. then, in the wake of the tearing-open, you feel the thirsty land quake. but god is not in the quaking. in the wake of the quaking, you feel fire. but god is not in the fire. in the wake of the fire, then, there is a <i>voice<\/i>\u2014reserved, thin. (this is god)<\/p><p><small><i>\u2014my translation of 1 kings 19:11\u201312. <\/i><\/small><\/p><\/blockquote>","link":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/824567363118710784","guid":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/824567363118710784","pubDate":"Mon, 10 Aug 2026 09:31:56 -0400","category":["translation","the nature of god","1 kings 19","elijah"]},{"title":"Get weirder about God","description":"<p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tumblr.com\/blood-is-the-life\/767948290674262016\/get-weirder-about-god\" target=\"_blank\">blood-is-the-life<\/a>:<\/p><blockquote><p>Get weirder about God<\/p><\/blockquote>","link":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/824316257344143360","guid":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/824316257344143360","pubDate":"Fri, 07 Aug 2026 15:00:43 -0400"},{"title":"Sleep (Jesus in the Boat), India artist","description":"<p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"https:\/\/globalworship.tumblr.com\/post\/824313124105617408\/sleep-jesus-in-the-boat-india-artist\" target=\"_blank\">globalworship<\/a>:<\/p><blockquote><p>This painting is titled &ldquo;Sleep&rdquo; and was created by Indian artist Jobin Joseph VC, who now lives in Rome, Italy.<br\/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/brojoe.joseph\/about\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/brojoe.joseph\/about<\/a><\/p><div class=\"npf_row\"><figure class=\"tmblr-full\" data-orig-height=\"480\" data-orig-width=\"800\"><img src=\"https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/762411040bbb241a0ee93fc22bedd31e\/c6837f067593cb99-fb\/s640x960\/fa17fe4bd842b824da0ba3381d8a921aba00ec1d.png\" data-orig-height=\"480\" data-orig-width=\"800\" srcset=\"https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/762411040bbb241a0ee93fc22bedd31e\/c6837f067593cb99-fb\/s75x75_c1\/bdaade938c0712b26973335c3a137b0f281a6d18.png 75w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/762411040bbb241a0ee93fc22bedd31e\/c6837f067593cb99-fb\/s100x200\/b15fd3f20b5337a41f384454a48f7928d59d5354.png 100w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/762411040bbb241a0ee93fc22bedd31e\/c6837f067593cb99-fb\/s250x400\/276f68a5b320662151d0ecc8365ef8ce40c9ce29.png 250w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/762411040bbb241a0ee93fc22bedd31e\/c6837f067593cb99-fb\/s400x600\/096580c6fc97999b3119a16e3b4f4d419a478d10.png 400w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/762411040bbb241a0ee93fc22bedd31e\/c6837f067593cb99-fb\/s500x750\/e1383154ba8805583de51faf18f38c23b29aa1c5.png 500w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/762411040bbb241a0ee93fc22bedd31e\/c6837f067593cb99-fb\/s540x810\/9ed7a7a79e12c73b68dd900e83adfb9cd21c4520.png 540w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/762411040bbb241a0ee93fc22bedd31e\/c6837f067593cb99-fb\/s640x960\/fa17fe4bd842b824da0ba3381d8a921aba00ec1d.png 640w, https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/762411040bbb241a0ee93fc22bedd31e\/c6837f067593cb99-fb\/s1280x1920\/b3658ffb02c895dc6e838451f12be6df147d6b59.png 800w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\"\/><\/figure><\/div><p>+++<\/p><p>The painting depicts Jesus Christ resting in a fishing boat, surrounded by a serene scene of lotus flowers and fish.<\/p><\/blockquote>","link":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/824316183377494016","guid":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/824316183377494016","pubDate":"Fri, 07 Aug 2026 14:59:32 -0400","category":["this is gorgeous!!!","undescribed","jesus","art","fishing boat","rest"]},{"title":"Hi! Do you have book recs for someone learning about disability theology and queer\/trans theology? I\u2019m a nonbinary young adult who\u2019s starting to re-examine my religious beliefs, and I\u2019m interested in these topics.","description":"<p>heck yeah i do! :D<\/p><h1><a href=\"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/790682642738790400\/disability-theology-resources\">click here for my top disability theology recs<\/a>! <br>___<\/h1><h1>Queer theology<\/h1><p>I specialize in trans-specific (and now also <a href=\"https:\/\/docs.google.com\/document\/d\/1qXqixQr9Pm6qei3AhBnJyIN9iLbEaReOn3kbUrqdvTA\/edit?usp=drive_link\">polyamorous<\/a>) theology, but here are some great works with broader queer theology!<\/p><ul><li>It's an older text (1997) but there are some real bangers in <i>Our Families, Our Values: Snapshots of Queer Kinship<\/i> (<a href=\"https:\/\/annas-archive.pk\/md5\/3847cdd9803d3846721143230e9e686d\">download it free here<\/a>) \u2014 including the fantastic article on Jesus identifying with eunuchs by Victoria Kolakowski. Mona West's article on Ruth is also great. And it ends with a chapter by Jane Spahr, someone I know and admire from More Light Presbyterians' early days!!<br>.<\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/dp\/B0172WG6B0\/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1#reader_B0172WG6B0\"><b><i>Our Lives Matter: A Womanist Queer Theology <\/i><\/b><\/a>by Pamela Lightsey \u2014 This book \u201cuses the tenor of the 2014 national protests that emerged as a response to excessive police force against Black people to frame the book as following the discursive tradition of <b>liberation theologies<\/b> broadly speaking and womanist theology specifically.\"<br>.<\/li><li><i>Queer Virtue: What LGBTQ People Know About Life and Love and How It Can Revitalize Christianity<\/i> by Elizabeth Edman \u2014 I haven't read this one but I've heard good things!<\/li><\/ul><p>___<\/p><h1>Trans theology<\/h1><p><a href=\"https:\/\/docs.google.com\/document\/d\/1c7DMI0vGjXoLKMMccHenxqcVlXltCyyYHyhbpG-e7A8\/edit?tab=t.0#heading=h.dlalx4yw4fnh\">this is my <b>google doc of trans and intersex Christian resources<\/b><\/a> as a whole; my top recs for trans <i>theology<\/i> in particular are below.<\/p><p><b>Books<\/b><\/p><ul><li><a href=\"http:\/\/austenhartke.com\/book\"><b><i>Transforming:<\/i><\/b><i> The Bible and the Lives of Transgender Christians<\/i><\/a><i> <\/i>by Austen Hartke \u2014 \u201cWeaving <b>biblical<\/b> examples of gender nonconformity and transformation with the <b>stories<\/b> and voices of contemporary trans Christians, Hartke\u2019s approach is both pastoral and prophetic as he addresses harmful Christian theology that has been used to further marginalize and exclude trans people.\"<br><a href=\"https:\/\/docs.google.com\/document\/d\/1S64R9CVxQ8TjRzcHURh9Zuci_CCrtQedVqqVuB4dhqM\/edit?usp=sharing\">I'm also a big fan of Hartke's YouTube videos<\/a>!<br>.<\/li><li><a href=\"http:\/\/otherwiseengagedpublishing.com\/2019\/08\/11\/otherwise-christian-a-guidebook-for-transgender-liberation\/\"><b><i>OtherWise Christian:<\/i><\/b><i> A Guidebook for Transgender Liberation <\/i>by Chris Paige<\/a> \u2014  This book \"<b>reviews 25 years of transgender-affirming biblical scholarship<\/b>\u201c to assert \u201cthat the Bible shows us story after story of OtherWise-gendered people being used by God to further the kingdom.\"<\/li><\/ul><p><b>Podcasts<\/b><\/p><ul><li><a href=\"https:\/\/biblebashpodcast.podbean.com\/\">The Bible Bash podcast<\/a>: each episode takes a queer look at a passage of the Bible<\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.blessedarethebinarybreakers.com\/podcast-archive\"><i>Blessed Are the Binary Breakers<\/i><\/a>: my own podcast! I interview trans persons of various faith backgrounds, or share my own trans theology \/ Bible readings<\/li><\/ul><p>Feel free to come back with questions or comments as you explore!<\/p>","link":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/823923932679766016","guid":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/823923932679766016","pubDate":"Mon, 03 Aug 2026 07:04:53 -0400","category":["disability theology","queer theology","trans theology","resources","ref","books","recs"]},{"title":"God&rsquo;s parental tenderness can also be expressed by the image of motherhood, which emphasizes God&rsquo;s&hellip;","description":"<p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"https:\/\/fierysword.tumblr.com\/post\/822378050186543104\/gods-parental-tenderness-can-also-be-expressed-by\" target=\"_blank\">fierysword<\/a>:<\/p><blockquote><blockquote class=\"npf_indented\"><p>God&rsquo;s parental tenderness can also be expressed by the image of motherhood, which emphasizes God&rsquo;s immanence, the intimacy between Creator and creature. The language of faith thus draws on the human experience of parents<\/p><\/blockquote><p>Catholic Catechism<\/p><\/blockquote>","link":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/822394348013535232","guid":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/822394348013535232","pubDate":"Fri, 17 Jul 2026 09:52:47 -0400","category":["god and gender","feminine god","mother god","god beyond gender","catholic tag"]},{"title":"I&rsquo;m interested in recording conversations with non-monogamous \/ polyamorous people of faith that can&hellip;","description":"<p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"https:\/\/a-queer-seminarian.tumblr.com\/post\/822141238613606400\/im-interested-in-recording-conversations-with\" target=\"_blank\">a-queer-seminarian<\/a>:<\/p><blockquote><h2>I&rsquo;m interested in recording conversations with<b> non-monogamous \/ polyamorous people of faith <\/b>that can help showcase:<\/h2><ul><li>how many of us there are!<\/li><li>connections between non-monogamy and the divine<\/li><li>gifts and wisdom we can bring to our faith communities (and beyond)<\/li><li>struggles we face within faith communities and broader society<\/li><li>ways faith communities have worked to embrace their non-monogamous members<\/li><li>the diversity of our thoughts and experiences<\/li><\/ul><p>I<b>f <i>you<\/i> are polyamorous\/non-monogamous and engage in <i>any<\/i> religion \/ practice spirituality<\/b> (or have left religion due to anti-polyamory views or actions), hit me up! If you&rsquo;re unsure you qualify, chances are you do.<\/p><p>I&rsquo;m aiming for most conversations to go into a <b>YouTube<\/b> <b>video<\/b> series, but we can also do <b>audio<\/b>-only or even <b>text<\/b>-only to accommodate everyone and protect anonymity where needed.<\/p><p>I&rsquo;d also love for many of the conversations to involve multiple people of the same polycule, but one-on-one also works!<\/p><\/blockquote>","link":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/822362640291627008","guid":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/822362640291627008","pubDate":"Fri, 17 Jul 2026 01:28:48 -0400"},{"title":"Hi Samantha! I have a query for you if you don\u2019t mind me asking. I\u2019m a Christian (Catholic) and I\u2019m worried about the virtue of chastity. I would like to have sex (even though I\u2019m not married) but I\u2019m worried it would make me a bad Christian. I know that some interpret it as being ok and if someone else asked me I would tell them not to worry but I\u2019m unsure. Do you think there could be another way to interpret chastity as a virtue? Would it be better for me to remain a virgin?","description":"<p>i go to confession every week for this i\u2019m not the one to give you a response. i\u2019m a very bad catholic <\/p><p>I hope it's okay to reblog with some of my personal thoughts! (I am Catholic as well as Presbyterian if you want to know my background, anon. I am also currently extremly happily married and polyamorous i.e. have a second partner. Also my now-wife and I had sex long before we were married!)<\/p><p>As someone who does not abide rigidly by every point in the Catholic Catechism (given that I'm trans and queer \/ \"same-sex\" married and all that), I definitely believe that how we understand chastity can be reframed.<\/p><p>The Catholic defintion of chastity at its most basic involves moderation in sexual \"appetites.\" In the most stringent application of the Catechism, this involves <i>only<\/i> having sex within marriage with the aim of procreation. <\/p><p>Obviously, a <i>lot<\/i> of Catholic married couples use birth control \/ have sex just for the fun and intimacy of it! Given that reality, along with the reality of a lot of extramarital sex and queer sex, etc., this might be a place you decide you are willing to reframe to something more expansive than the Catechism strictly instructs.<\/p><p><b>Does chastity <\/b><i><b>have<\/b><\/i><b> to mean total sexual abstinence? Or can it mean being thoughtful and intentional about how you have sex?<\/b><\/p><p>Because it combines Catholicism with a potentially more expansive understanding of sexual ethics, I believe you might get a lot out of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bloomsbury.com\/us\/just-love-9780826429247\/\">Sister Margaret Farley's 2008 book <\/a><b><i><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bloomsbury.com\/us\/just-love-9780826429247\/\">Just Love: A Framework for Christian Sexual Ethics<\/a><\/i><\/b>.<\/p><p>Farley\u2019s framework is centered around seven points that help determine whether sex is \u201cjust\u201d (i.e.,<b> it gives to each person their due, and everyone\u2019s autonomy and relationality is respected<\/b>):<\/p><ul><li>Do no unjust harm<\/li><li>Free consent of partners<\/li><li>Mutuality<\/li><li>Equality<\/li><li>Commitment<\/li><li>Fruitfulness<\/li><li>Social justice<\/li><\/ul><p>To briefly clarify a few of these: <\/p><ul><li>Mutuality refers to \u201cmutuality of participation\u201d \u2013 there should not be this idea of one \u201cactive\u201d and one \u201cpassive\u201d partner; both should be engaged. <br>.<\/li><li>Equality refers to avoiding to great an imbalance in power dynamic \u2013 a teacher and student is one such example of imbalanced power. <br>.<\/li><li>Fruitfulness does not refer solely to procreation, but a production of interpersonal love. Love should overflow into the world! The experiences you gain through sexual activity can generate increased understanding, energy, etc. you can share more broadly.<br>.<\/li><li>Social justice is about sex on a wider sphere \u2013 fighting against domestic violence, etc.<\/li><\/ul><p>Various kinds of sexual relationships may well fit into Farley\u2019s sexual ethic: sex before\/outside of marriage, sex among LGBTQIA+ persons, polyamorous sex\u2026examples of all these kinds of relationships can be found in which all of her seven points are met.<\/p><p>For more, read Farley's whole book or check out my #<a href=\"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/tagged\/margaret%20farley\">Margaret Farley<\/a> tag.<\/p><p>____<\/p><p>I also want to name that <b>the concepts of chastity and virginity are often used as a means of control over vulnerable people. <\/b><\/p><p>For example, virginity is expounded as a virtue for girls and women far more often than for boys and men! <\/p><p>In my Presbyterian denomination, we had an old clause called the \"chastity and fidelity clause\" that required ordained ministers to be \"faithful in marriage and chaste [read: sexually abstinent] in singleness [read: outside marriage].\" <\/p><p>But \"shockingly,\" that clause was only ever enforced against women and queer people! (And because this was before same-sex marriage was legal across the USA, it meant that queer people could <i>never<\/i> have sex, even with a life partner.) It was an open secret that plenty of cishet male ministers \/ seminary students looking to get ordained were having extramarital sex, but <i>they<\/i> were never the ones kicked out of the system for it.<\/p><p>Sexuality as a whole is a <i>very<\/i> effective weapon of control. If you can convince people that most sexual activity (even masturbation) is a grave sin; while being aware that most people at least occasionally \"fail\" to live up to those sexual standards; then congrats \u2014 you have a population steeped in deep and often secret shame and self-loathing.<\/p><p>And a person full of shame is much easier to control; to some extent they may even believe they \"deserve\" any harm done to them.<\/p><p>...Okay sorry anon, that meandered on past what you were actually asking, but it's one other layer that may or may not help you as you unpack things around virginity and chastity! Figuring out where the concept of chastity is actually holy, versus where it is a product of human powers attempting control over others, may be part of the process.<\/p>","link":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/822328668306145280","guid":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/822328668306145280","pubDate":"Thu, 16 Jul 2026 16:28:50 -0400","category":["sexuality","sex tag","chastity","virginity"]},{"title":"I&rsquo;m interested in recording conversations with non-monogamous \/ polyamorous people of faith that can&hellip;","description":"<p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"https:\/\/a-queer-seminarian.tumblr.com\/post\/822141238613606400\/im-interested-in-recording-conversations-with\" target=\"_blank\">a-queer-seminarian<\/a>:<\/p><blockquote><h2>I&rsquo;m interested in recording conversations with<b> non-monogamous \/ polyamorous people of faith <\/b>that can help showcase:<\/h2><ul><li>how many of us there are!<\/li><li>connections between non-monogamy and the divine<\/li><li>gifts and wisdom we can bring to our faith communities (and beyond)<\/li><li>struggles we face within faith communities and broader society<\/li><li>ways faith communities have worked to embrace their non-monogamous members<\/li><li>the diversity of our thoughts and experiences<\/li><\/ul><p>I<b>f <i>you<\/i> are polyamorous\/non-monogamous and engage in <i>any<\/i> religion \/ practice spirituality<\/b> (or have left religion due to anti-polyamory views or actions), hit me up! If you&rsquo;re unsure you qualify, chances are you do.<\/p><p>I&rsquo;m aiming for most conversations to go into a <b>YouTube<\/b> <b>video<\/b> series, but we can also do <b>audio<\/b>-only or even <b>text<\/b>-only to accommodate everyone and protect anonymity where needed.<\/p><p>I&rsquo;d also love for many of the conversations to involve multiple people of the same polycule, but one-on-one also works!<\/p><\/blockquote>","link":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/822232606250827776","guid":"https:\/\/blessedarethebinarybreakers.tumblr.com\/post\/822232606250827776","pubDate":"Wed, 15 Jul 2026 15:01:58 -0400"}]}}