Not having you friended doesn't mean I'm not reading your journal.
Having you friended doesn't mean I am reading your journal.
I might disappear for months altogether or only post to my journal and not read anyone else's. I'm erratic like that. I don't mean anything by it. I just get easily obsessed with stuff and often I have so many browser windows open on my desktop I'm actually unable to open more. I don't want to ignore you, but it happens. I'm sorry.
Most of my stuff is f-locked for no obvious reason, and some of the stuff that maybe should be f-locked (or deleted) is not. I'm a bit random that way.