Okay, so I'm going to this wedding at the end of September (9/25) on Long Island. It's an afternoon wedding with stuff afterwards. The wedding party is wearing black tie, and I've been informed that men are "slacks, blazer and tie, or suit" and women are "what you would wear to a nice restaurant" (which I'm assuming is business-to-formal).

I have *no clue* what to wear.

( I have options, though!Collapse )

Thoughts, advice, other suggestions, and offers to take me shopping gratefully accepted. Also, does anyone have any clue what to do with my hair, aside from "dye it to match"?